Some things in life takes too long to build, they demands a lot of our time, money, commitment and much more resources, Others demands life to be fully accomplished.
Surprisingly to bring them down takes seconds.
It demanded a lot from the wright brothers to bring up the aeroplane. Imagine the pain when it first crashed and all they had as a reward of their years hard work turned back to zero.
I thought they lost all.. but wait... Even if it crashed to a point they couldn't collect any piece to build up another one. The art to build the next one couldn't be crushed!!! they didn't lose it all. Its the only thing that gave them hope.
Its heartbreaking how a tree can struggle from a seed to became a tree, only after years of tough times, its cut within minutes, and all is lost. a lifetime painful investment. But unless its fully uprooted, it will still sprout again, stronger maybe.
Most times the fear of losing all is much greater than the zeal to became. watch what you loose, you don't lose everything, the art to became remains within you. The next process becomes simpler, don't be afraid of loses.
A friend is not made in a day or two neither three, but it takes time, years maybe, s/he's a friend because of maybe a common goal,
perhaps s/he got attracted to you because of who you are, what you do, what you believe, what you possess, what you like or what you hate. You determine the kind of friends you attract and that's you.
The moment you know who you are, even your friends will be consistent, because you will be real, you will be you. what ever attracts them and keeps them to you is the you that you don't struggle to became.
You will lose them if you keep changing who you are, more worse is when you don't know yourself. you can't even keep friends.
Loosing a friend is not easy, you've invested on them, let me put it correctly, you've wasted a lot with them. Maybe they discovered who you really are, maybe they were wrong when they made you a friend, there's something in you they hadn't seen. The made a wrong investment.
If it was the real you they didn't like, there's nothing much you can do about it.
If still on the process of discovering yourself, there's still more chance to learn all isn't lost, The art is not lost. Let them befriend you for who you are, for what you do, for what you believe, let them love you for you.
Your Identity is in Christ Jesus.
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#Youarelovable
#Youareacceptable
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