This post might bring a lot of arguments. but either way take time to read, think through and its my prayer that God will speak to you through it.
God's intention for marriage isn't only for us to feel good or complete as some say it, but also to raise a godly offspring. though I have realized you can't blame your parent, for raising you the way your are, you have to appreciate the far they've brought you. Whether they left you to your grandma that's what was best for you at that time. they wanted the best for you..of course not all of them #stop complaining, stop trying to figure out,it happened you can't change anything much. #carry it from there you know what you didn't like about your background, change for your generation.
God's plan for you ain't based on your background, isn't determined by your parent, neither your brothers or sisters, but by God himself. lets see 1st Samuel 1, Hannah needed a son, she didn't know what to do with him after he came.. Abraham even at old age desired a son, you will agree with me apart from the pleasure that comes from being called Daddy or Mummy. no plan literally for their son. you do not have a plan for your child, you ain't sure of what you will do with him or her, don't worry no one has a plan, even your parent didn't have one for you. By plan I don't mean taking the child to school, university, getting married and raising their kids, No I mean the plan of the route taken by an individual to achieve their purpose here on earth.
God is committed to your destiny, whether you arrive there is up to you, He made you, placed you here on earth for a purpose, He wants you to succeed but He never violates the will of man, its all up to you to discover His will for you. its good, right and perfect Will for you.
The society as I stated in the previous post doesn't give a good environment for one to realise their purpose, it doesn't believe in you,to the society success is going to school, getting employed, married and raising your kids, am sorry but that's not what God made you to be. Your purpose is bigger than you, it impacts generations after you, Its bigger than your abilities, demands more than you can give, its divine. until the society thinks you are nuts you've not started your journey to your purpose.
Do not be conformed to the patterns of this world but be transformed by the renewal of your mind that you may know the right, good and perfect Will of God. that's scriptures Romans 12: 1-... there are patterns in this world, that we think are the norm, for everyone here, but listen and listen carefully, your life, your purpose is completely different from mine, you cannot live your life the way I've lived mine. two of the seven unique things in every human being is history and experience, be renewed in your minds. you are unique, with a different Mission that require different history and experience.
Nobody is better equipped and experienced to achieve what God designed you to achieve than you are. You are the best in it!! you better believe.
The tasks comes in when you have to discover what God designed, prepared and ordained you to be, the knowledge of His will, Proverbs says seek knowledge as silver and gold. One of author says two important days in a man are the day he was born and the day he discovers why. the answer isn't with your parent, neither hidden in your past experiences and history, nor in the society. its simply with your Maker. let your mind be transformed: transformation comes through the WORD of God, and you shall discover the Will of God for you. He knows why you are here, He have been watching you all through to ensure He (through you) achieve what He desired, that good, right and perfect will.
I'm speaking to you, because its about you and you purpose, irrespective of your age, not anyone else, look at Haggai and her son Ishmael, in the desert, the Bible says, God heard the prayer of Ishmael and answered. right? it Isn't your Mum or Dad, your husband or wife, your mentor or priest Pastor or whoever, to stand in the gap for you, to discover for you. NOooo.. Its you to go out of your way, and discover His will for you. " study the Scriptures, Pray, Fellowship, Testify, and Serve. meditate on His Word, seek Him, " He is a rewarder of them that seek Him diligently.
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